Skip The Apology - Retain Your Presentation Credibility
An accomplished physician and researcher from Puerto Rico was presenting at a conference of her peers in the United States. “First,” the doctor began, “I want to apologize for my English.”
Sitting in the audience, I felt the energy drain out of the room. Audience members collectively caught their breath, preparing to sit through a problematic presentation.
I wanted to rewind the tape and skip the apology. Like other speech coaches, I advise against apologizing in a speech—especially during the introduction.
A primary goal of an introduction is to establish the speaker’s credibility. To begin with an apology is to begin by undermining your own credibility and set a negative tone for the presentation. Not only did the doctor’s apology expose a lack of confidence, it diverted attention from her expertise. The apology was entirely unnecessary—the doctor’s skills as a clinician and a researcher had earned her the right to present.
It is appropriate to acknowledge an obvious difference that might distract audience members from your content, something like a heavy accent or the presence of a wheelchair. The doctor might have begun, “I’ve come from Puerto Rico to report significant findings from my research. These findings may impact your clinical practice in substantial ways. As we work together today, you might notice that English is not my first language. Sometimes my brain goes faster in Spanish than my tongue can translate. Thank you for your patience.”
The same is true if you should encounter a problem with the room, with the equipment, or with another speaker failing to arrive on time. If the audience knows about the problem, acknowledge it. Then confidently report how you are going to handle the situation and get on with it. If you appear to take the situation in stride, the audience will as well.
Acknowledge differences and problems that arise, but skip the apology. Your credibility—and often the success of your presentation—depend on it.
Copyright 2006 by inCredible Messages, LP
Bonnie Budzowski, an expert on influence, credibility and communication, works with people and organizations who want to communicate in ways that lead to success. She is a professional speaker, seminar leader and author of Secrets to Get Busy People to Respond to Your Messages and Clickety Clack: 86 Ways to Keep Your Speech on Track. Contact her at http://www.inCredibleMessages.com
Tags: credibility, persuasion, presentations
Other Link
Related Posts
- Waste Management and Skip Bins
- Ways To Succeed On Money Making Online
- Creating Presentations
- Speak Like a Pro and Make Money Doing It
- 5 Steps To Prevent Death By Powerpoint
- Build the Marketing Relationship With Your Prospects
- Custom Made Jingles, Commercials And Music For Television And Radio
- Preparing A More Powerful Presentation
- 25 Questions for a Powerful B2B Website Strategy
- Job Interview Tip - How To Demonstrate What You Know
- When Cold Calls Become A “dog And Pony Show”
- How To Get A Call Back From Your Cold Calls
- Effective Listing Presentations
- In Direct Mail Fundraising Programs, Count Your Donors And Your Dollars, Says Consultant
- Personal Branding 101 - Four Strategies You Must Deploy As A Professional Speaker
- Create A Custom Layout
- A Great Baby Boomer Retention Plan For Dallas Fort Worth Tx Employers
- Public Speaking And Presentations - Top 10 Tips
- Business Intelligence Software: CRM
- Professional Internet Marketing - Are You Kidding Me?
- Discovering Your Authentic Presentation Personality!
- Being Self-employed May Be A Tough & Lonely Road While Being Exhilarating!
- Using Wink As A People Finder
- Website Promotion Tool - 7 Reasons To Use Wordpress Blog For Free Website Promotion Tool
- Dare to be PRESENT - or What’s the Point?
- What Can You Do With an Ebook?
- Retaining Employees After The First Year
- 10 Tips For Great Powerpoint Presentations
- Careers In Financial Planning-do You Have What It Takes To Excel As A Financial Planner?
- Sales Tip-turn On The Faucet Of Success









































